Snuggled In
Father and Daughter
by Chris Bellezza
Maggie’s pick up went way better than I expected. We arrived, with no weather-related problems — despite some flashing signs on the highway advising of “winter weather ahead.” We were heading north of Syracuse, in the snow belt, and had to traverse some elevated roadways where last week there was a 30-car accident due to sudden icing of the road.
Luckily today, there wasn’t any ice and only very light snow, but the warning signs seemed to have slowed the traffic and that made us more comfortable. My husband Jay insisted on coming with me, since I was heading to a stranger’s home, and the kids, by default, had to come along for the ride.
Maggie Mae’s home was warm and charming, and all of the kids were there, politely waiting to meet this woman who was here to take away their dog. The mom was kind and friendly.
The oldest girl was off to the side. Maggie Mae was barking at me, and even when I got down on the floor, she was really unsure about this intruder.
We talked about Maggie, what she likes (belly rubs and stealing food from the toddler) and doesn’t like (some men, having toys taken from her mouth, sleeping late). She does have some bad habits, apparently (pooping in the house right after she’s been out, not liking to go potty on the grass – she prefers the driveway, screaming when she’s upset about something or you sleep too late, table surfing). I made good friends with the 3 young boys — two of them wanted to come home with me and meet my dogs — and all of them were adorable.
The oldest daughter offered some helpful tips, and I gave her a note with my contact information and assurance that she could call me anytime she wanted an update. I didn’t get to see the little baby, who was sleeping. (Drats!)
I then took Maggie’s stuff ( a big bag of food, a long leash, a crate and two nice blankets, a stuffed animal that the daughter slept with) out to the car and gave them some time to say goodbye while I gave Jay and our kids a quick update, and then I went back in. The mom said, with tears in her own eyes, that she was now upset. Thankfully, the boys were still ok with things, and after I scooped up the still reluctant, stiff-legged little MM, I said a quick goodbye and reminded them to call whenever they wanted.
And that was that. It’s a hard thing to give up your family pet, but all in all, it wasn’t as difficult a transition as it might have been, for all of us.
Maggie Mae, though, is getting braver by the hour and is much happier here, once she saw that we have treats and serve dinner! 🙂
There’s a hint of salt-and-pepper in the fur upon my face,
And the odds are now in favor of the squirrels that I chase.
I sleep a little longer, and am slower waking up,
But it really doesn’t matter, ’cause to Mom I’m still a pup.
My teeth in front are missing; when I sleep my tongue peeks out.
I must watch my diet carefully to keep from growing stout.
My lovely coat is thicker, and sometimes it grows quite wild,
But it really doesn’t matter, ’cause Mom thinks I’m still a child.
My heart is strong and healthy, I can still jump with the best.
(Though after a good romp outside I love a nice long rest!)
I may not fetch a tennis ball as fast as I once did,
But it really doesn’t matter, Mama thinks I’m still a kid!
I know she sees my gray hairs, but only with her eyes.
With her heart, she sees her young dog, and it’s hard to realize
That I am growing older, as the years around me swirl.
But it really doesn’t matter, ’cause, forever, I’m her girl.
— Submitted by Cass Liberman, on behalf of Ailsa (Chadwick Ailsa Craig, CGC, TDI).
Ailsa passed away in August 2005 when she was only 11 years old. Up until then, one of her many jobs was mentoring the many foster dogs who entered her household.